Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Indeks Ukuran sebuah Keikhlasan





Merujuk kepada Prof Rosdi Leman dalam karangan bukunya "Rangkaian Kukuh sebuah persahabatan" terbitan Media Tech dalam tahun gawatnya ekonomi iaitu 1997. Petikan halaman 32 berkisar tentang menilai seorang sahabat. bagaimana beliau meletakan konseptualisasi dalam erti menilai sebuah persahabatan merujuk kepada makna keikhlasan. permasalahan disini bagaimana meletakan erti keikhlasan tidak pernah jelas dalam kes pemberian sebuah hadiah. Yang pertama hanya mewar warkan sebuah keikhlasan tetapi langsung tidak meletakan indeks ukuran yg bagaimana. Yg tertuduh di iri iri bagaimana tidak menghargai sesuatu pemberian, secara tuntas nya penolakan secara lembut atau terus terang supaya hadiah pemberian yg diberikan tidak akan disia siakan. Dalam konteks tidak mahu lagi lambakan hadiah yang sama di dalam almari rumah tertuduh maka secara rasionalnya cadangan baiklah saja diberikan kepada org lain menjadi jawapan yang paling optimis. Mungkin ada lagi insan yg lebih memerlukan. sekurang kurang nya insan yang memerlukan itulah akan pandai untuk mengharagai sebuah pemberian. Bukan meletakakan status di tahap kekwat yg paling maksimum malah terus terang supaya pihak pemberi juga dapat merasakan kepuasan apabila memberi sesuatu untuk di hargai. Yang keduanya melihat kepada hujah kes yang di lemparkan kepada pihak pemberi mengatakan bahawa seorang lagi penerima memberi senyuman diatas hadiah yang diterima sedangkan pemberi sendiri dapat membaca yang sebenarnya hanyalah senyuman sebuah lakonan, maknanya timbul lagi satu keraguan kes siapakah sebenarnya tidak pandai menghargai sebuah pemberian. Analisis kes cukup mudah untuk kita faham dalam kes pemberian hadiah ini



1) Suka tapi sebenarnya tak suka
ATAU

2) Tak suka terus terang tak suka

Pemberi harus pilih. Perjelaskan?

Dalam karangan Prof Rosdi Leman lagi dalam halaman 37 bagaimana beliau menegaskan sikap terus terang adalah menjadi tunjang utama dalam menghargai sebuah persahabatan.

Gulungan Kes cukup mudah di pihak kena iri iri, untuk terus tegas terhadap sikap terus terang...

tu sajorkkkkkkk.

Di sertakan bukti kukuh pua kumbu terbesar (ukuran Queen Bed Size) yang bakal menjadi lapik utk bilik permainan berhadas nanti. rujuk gambar diatas.

P/S Semua statement di atas rundingan Penguambela CEO dan CEO (yang di iri iri) yang baru dilantik semenjak CEO kena hencap baru baru ineh oleh beberapa penoreh penoreh...

12 comments:

Miss Africa said...

Well done Queenana for a very insightful concept of Keikhlasan! It was very subtle to showcase your firm standing on this never ending HADIAH issue! Yes..i do agree with Queenana! Tak suka cakap tak suka! So that it will not go to your dustbin. Give to someone else who deserves it more. That's why sometime i do not agree with this suprise gift. It would be more practical if you ask her what she wish you to buy! If you could not afford, then say it so! Do not make yourself miserable! One thing is people don't ask you to buy the present. So don't be a drama queen! Don't always think you are the most Cinderella among all whose your 'golden heart' always get hurt! It doesn't work that way honey!Posting it in this kebunGetah and making yourself seem to be the most vulnerable victim after your good deeds is a very BIG question mark of your KEIKHLASAN!
That's why Miss Africa posed the question of the 3 hadiah even before the party! It is a question of being practical not keikhlasan!Daaa... Sadly, it turned out that the one who had championed this KEIKHLASAN concept thrown the tantrum of having the Mydin present! Not even me!! Daaah..(quoted from CempakaDesa)
Ironically, the giver and the receiver of that Sarawakian fabric were used to be a strong team contender of my 3 hadiah rationale! Apa dah jadikkk!People went Hu Ha after the party about the hadiah! Two unfortunate fellows were blamed for cheap and bad taste selection of present. For me, it was the most horrrendous things that we could have ever done in KebunGetah! It was even more worse than me questioning the rationale of 3 hadiah!

For that crying Cinderella....could you please not showcase your purer, nicer, grander friendship to all of us? yes we got it! Just being your simple and funny personality! We all like you already!

To Kekwat Queenana....you should have refused the present with more wisdom! Don't be a sophisticated bitch!!

Miss Africa

Fiebie said...

the whole idea of things being cheap, (not corporate gift stolen from company's asset)is the product is of low quality, low goodness of product, it is not fit for use, do now have transcendent quality, the product attribute is measured low, is what 'what people don't want or humane.

Sebab tu some people are call "binatang" when they get so stingy. they lost sight of their human emotion.

however, the price of it yes we question and open tu judgmental discourse.

dont question why i give, tapi question why i give cheap price sajork. and why i chose to give it to queen nana.

and actually i respect queen nana decision of not wanting it, so i can give it someone else. but i rather see her put it under her bed or make it a kain buruk, rather just throwing it away on the sofa.

its just, i need to write something saja, to make this kebun getah more livelier.

but, i could not agree with you more.

nicely said.

Fiebie said...

something wrong with my comment. some parts of it is missing. hik.

CempakaDesa said...

Hadiah...hadiah....hadiah..... Tu hem tak kisah. Tapi yang penting 2 hadiah inneh...1. Hadiah besday hem 2. Hadiah untuk corporate club house di Jalan Tekukur.

Tapi apapun, your attendance is much appreciated (alasan nak nampak Cinderelley).

Enuf said..m

Corina said...

Hadiah korporat.......RM0, hadiah gathering...........RM5...................Hadiah Friendship.....PRICELESS!!!!!!!!!!!


What money can buy............MASTERCARD.........

@way said...

Well harga tak penting, yang penting ingatan...HEM sudah meletakkan PUA KUMBU iteww di dining table HEM yng meletop iteww...
Well jangan makan hati sesiapa yang tak dapat iteww...
Emm FB kalau sesapa dinch mahu HADIAH iteww...HEM sudi menerimanya lagi dengan hati yang ikhlas...HEM suka, HEM suka uoll

Iteww S@jork...

P/s: Miss Africa sendiri cakap chantiq PUA iteww...Tapi dinch tahu lah ikhlas ke tidak...iteww sajork

Miss Africa said...

AFTER LONG THOUGHT..

Miss Africa says..

You know what?..that Queensize Kumbu is expensive i think! I mean i bought one big Kumbu table cloth for like RM 50/pc for all my 5 sisters last time in Kuching. With a Queensize like that, it must have been much more expensive!It could be double the price of my table cloth!!!! Ooh...maaaaaan!!!! Queenana!...you are really bitch! To FB...why do you like her so much???!!!

PUZZLED!

Miss Africa said...

To CempakaDEsa!!

Enough is enough with all your attention seeking effort! We don't want another Corina here who expects the whole world revolve around her!

ITu sajork!!

Miss Africa said...

To Corina,

Are u well? You were mumbling!!I think you need to see a psychatrist!

@way said...

Opsss sorry dalam persahabatan tak ada indek ukuran...ni bukan kilang buat barang-barang mainan... Ini nilai pershabatan...

Well main petik-petik sana,sini,situ,sini dinamakan indek ukuran ker uoll???

Iteww S@jork

queennana said...

To :abbyboosh
SEBAB DALAM PERSAHABATAN TAK DE INDEKS UKURAN LAH KES INI DIPERSOALKAN... ADA PERMASALAHAN UNTUK FAHAM BAHASA KERRRRR?.. Motif masih kurang berSINAR.... (PEGUAM)

@way said...

To Pegu@m Queen:

Well if u said that pershabatan tak ada indek to measure...why bring this as an issue???

Kalau mahu menwujudkan index ukurannya...u have to do the hypotheses and analytical study my dear...

Bukan cedok sana,sini,situ yer...

Iteww S@jork...

P/S : HEM dinch berSINAR lagi uoll...tapi sedikit gemerlapan s@jork...