After all these bitter attacks over the issue that i first posted in KebunGetah entitled "Housmateku dikebas orang", i think Miss Africa should step out and tell about her won experience with Luvbondage being her housmate for almost 6 months.
In 2005, Miss Africa balik from Sydney and had to start work immediately in Shah Alam. It was kind of difficult as i did not have my own car and didn't have a clue where to stay at that time. As usual, all my golden girls in KebunGetah were more than willing to give their hands. Mak Aji picked and sent me to work, CempakaDesa, Queenana and Abbybosh allowed me to stay as much as i wanted at their place while i was looking for my own.
Then i moved to a new place where Abbybosh and Igu2 are living now. After a while, i felt like i needed my own comfortable place. Sleeping on a rug with a cupboard as a partition did not make me any better. Furthermore, my relationship with Abbybosh turned sour as another drama queen, KTR came into the picture. I just did not know why i got annoyed with the lovey dovey scene by abbybosh and KTR at the time. Maybe Abbybosh purposely displayed her compassion towards KTR to me as she could see me as her threat to get KTR. (Abbybosh...jangan marah tau...ni flashback aje!). Having heard that i was planning to move out from the house, Missluvbondage offered me her place. Missluvbondage did not hijack me...No lobby! No influence! No persuasion! and NO manipulation!...she offered her assistance after she knew that i was looking for a new place.
She gave me a good offer! I did not have to reimburse her deposit or anything like that. Just bring my stuff in and pay the rental at the end of the month. My stay in section 7 was quiet, calm and convenient. Once in a while, Miss luvbondage expressed her disatisfaction about me misplacing her stuffs i.e. a metal tool on a fridge and my frequent midnite affair with stranger at home..(reservasi la tuh!) through her sms. No nasty words but firm hencapan not to do the same thing again! I replied with the same harsh language at times. That's all. Other than that...we all lived in peace.
Coming back to this hijack issue, i think miss luvbondage has all her right to be angry. Yes..i do not know the head and tail about this hijack thing. As a friend who used to live with her, Missluvbondage is Anggam...yang jenis...kalau ko tak kacau aku, aku tak kacau kau! And i am wondering, how could someone with a big heart like Missluvbondage could go so wild and marah marah to the hijacker? She must have a strong reason to do that.
It seems that the hijacker did not make an open and firm opinion that she could have done something wrong. I mean, if you badly want a new housemate and you hijack him, at least you make an effort to find the replacement or have the courtesy to beg, tell or the simplest..hint! What should be the reason not to do all of that if it was not a hanky panky??!
Enough said...i am in favour of MissLuvbondage!
Miss Africa
13 comments:
Pepatah orang tua-tua...jangan jolok sarang tebuan...so mind your own business...
Adakah mak nie kepochi...uppss hanya memberi pandangan sajork..sapa cuba ganggu harimau belaan mak..siap...
Lebih dari apa yang MissLuvBondage buat mak akan buat uols..mak rela tanam rangka katak depan rumah...awas yaa.....
Jangan cuba kacau kehidupan mak yang tenang..aman dan selesa...
Although having a stern, straight to the point and harsh ways of dealing with issues, Miss Africa never failed to amuse me with his sensitive takes, composure and humane sides. I have to agree with Miss Africa a hundred and ten percent on this matter, in fact i always agree with him because he makes his decision based on actual and hard facts.
maybe accept for certain hadiah thing.
anyway, what to expect from someone who cried watching Oprah and HBO drama.
teruskan you all, as long as it does not involve me.
opsssss
as i always told my anak ayam, when we choose to live like this, we don't have anyone else, we only have each other. not our family, not our friends, not our coleague, not the government not the society, not the mufti nor church nor tokong no kuil will take us into their community.
WE ONLY HAVE EACH OTHER!!!!
Unless you become a hypocrite and fool not only everyone around you, but fooling yourself to. but then again, soru tak boleh miss sayang, sometime we have to be a hypocrite kan.
To FB, i have been watching Oprah since i was 12 yo. At the time, i played my own dolls and put on my make up when i felt like doing it at home. The other boys would tease me if i was trying to play football with them. So, i ended up doing my own girl things at home. I still remember Oprah had this discussion about adulteration and betrayal between the couples based on her chosen novel. She revealed the third party that interfered a marriage of one couple. How amazing?!! To FB, tell me how could i stop watching Oprah? i am addicted to it!
While i was writing this, why not we in KebunGetah share our story about our childhood? Being discriminated and pampered as an adik2? Might be interesting!!
walaupun kita tak kacau orang, tapi kadang2 ada je org yang kacau kita.
kadang2 kita lebih suka menjadi joker, playsafe dan mentertawakan si A bergaduh dengan si B sementara kita berbadut-badut ditengah, tapi bila kena jentik sikit, sanggup tanam rangka katak depan rumah..
Kadang2 kita kata tak kisah apa orang lain cakap, tapi sebenarnya hati terluka dan marah sebab kawan sendiri yang patut lebih kenal kita tak sama pendapat tentang keputusan yang kita buat, lalu bertekak lah sambil ditertawakan badut2.
To CEO, please do something before I curse again!
Well..
I agree with uoll, Miss Africa, Kyra, FB and my SIS A.
Dalam hal ini mereka berdua sepatutnya bersemuka, jangan jadikan KebunGetah sebagai tempat menghempaskan emosi dan tidak kepuasan hati...
Tapi kalau untuk menyedarkan kenkawang yang terlena ok lah..jangan lah berlarutan mcm sekarang ni...
Jentik telur harimau tak ker nahas namanya???
Over lah...abby boosh....
Igu u ols available x?
Tapi mak suka idea tanam rangka katak depan rumah....
salam, sabar dik
Satu lagi cerita tentang kawan, ada masanya kawan datang kemudian pergi kemudian kita dapat kawan baru dan mereka pergi juga... begitulah seterus2 nya... hanya apa yg berlaku semua itu proses sahaja
eh..taste la beruang ni
Apa kabar ?sila2 lah dtg shah alam
Thx africa
tapi windu la ko sgt ari ni
drg lagu terbaru rossa
ayat-ayat cinta
To Missluvbondage,
adakah post mak jadik tempat chub chaser carik jodoh??!
I like u,,,,
kau rasa dia mcm Mr Big x?
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